What is it with "come shots"?

[big phil]

I only say this, as a fan of many types of hardcore I wonder at the classic come shot and it's place in porn and love lifes generally. I can understand a movie director wanting this type of shot (as a kind of "proof" if you will) But in my own (pretty varied)sexual past, I always enjoyed comming "inside" my partner (in all orifices over time) and it never occurred to me to "shoot" elsewhere. Have many folks out there been asked to "come over" a girl (or guy). The nearest I ever got to that was with a former very busty girlfriend who liked a tit wank with me "finishing off" over her face on occasion. My only ever, somewhat "drugged up" FFM (a long time ago!) where one girl (the larger, less attractive, brunette) insisted I come on her (admirably plentiful) pubes, for her "friend" (a petite and prettier blonde) to lick it all off , which she did, seeming to enjoy it. What do people think? Is there a big demand for Comming "all over" that I'm not aware of? or is it mainly a porn industry thing? I personally enjoy and enjoyed shooting my load into my partner, anally, orally or pussy.

[nitesurfer]

Yeah we can alll get in trouble when we start to treat our girls as though they are porn starlets... some like it... a lot seem to think it 'objectifies' them...in other words it denegrates them into sex objects....
Having said that there were many times when I was younger when good old coitus interuptus was "the" method of birth control so this involved a lot of pulling out and coming over bellies bums and boobs...Of course this was pre hiv days when preventing pregnancy was the biggest real worry and reason for condoms..
As for the money shot...well the feminists will give you the its degrading line....and there are some girls who I've known who were as much into porn as I was.... but when it come to say dumping a load all over their faces....purely because it looked goood etc they seemed to get the shits real fast.....(even though they enjoyed seeing it on a vid).....
To sum up... I have found that while many of the women...(all two of them ) that I've had sex with are happy enough and even claim to enjoy having ejaculate all over their bodies they seem to draw the line with the classic facial....

Of course I've always gotta try ;D

[big phil]

Good points sir. my "most active"sexual era was the late 70's/early 80's (the last pre condom/irresponsible era hopefully). Every girl (except one) was on the pill (we used condoms) so "interior work" didn't need an "overcoat". The sex object thing always bothered me oddly (but if it's what she says she wants .......) I think I just enjoyed the intimacy of comming "into" someone, I first tried anal sex as a request from my then girlfriend (I initially thought it repulsive, I now know better, (thanks "M" ) and I love the contrast with vaginal sex >). The 3some I mentioned made me feel "objectified" (the bigger girl was very assertive/dominant) and the tit wank girl was a deeply sad/tragic nymphomaniac .

[LoveLover]

Taking a man's load in her vagina is something every girl does. Rubbing the sperm over her tits or her back is something most girls do. But taking the sperm into their mouths makes a girl special. Swallowing it makes her even more special.

I have always wanted to come over a girl's open mouth so I can see the sperm falling on her tongue. That to me is the most enjoyable part of sex. I once had a girlsfriend who didn't want that. Sex with her was very forgettable.

Every drop of my sperm that doesn't come on a girl's tongue is a drop wasted. And in pronofilms, if I buy one and there's no coming on a girl's tongue, the movie is a waste of my money or my bandwith.

I hated it back in the early 1980's that so many spermloads ended over a girl's tits, belly or back. I felt cheated if they got my money but didn't deliver what I wanted to see.

It took 20 years after her death for me to find such a scene with shauna grant. I only recently discoverd a few unfaked shots onto Brigitte Lahaie's tongue. I still hope to find such scenes with Jane Baker.

I will not download or buy any movies with Anette Heaven, unless I can see in a preview that there's such a scene with another beatiful girl in the movie.

Before I buy or download a movie I always hope the poster will make clear in his description or preview pictures who gets such scenes. Because I really feel cheated if no one does.

I think it's incredible that the producers of porn movies took so many years to figure out that that is what most people want to see.

And girls, if you won't take sperm on your tongues, stay out of the porn bizz.

I find that there's nothing degrading about such scenes. On the contrary. A girls who does that, or even better who actually likes that is a girls I will have a lot of respect for. A girl who won't, to me, is nothing but a cheap excuse for a woman.

But that's just my opinion.

[deros]

The come shot is the logical end to a set. how els can you end it?
lately internal cum with post orgasm dripping sets seem to have crept into vogue a little more.
For me in real life which is really poles apart from the fantasy world of porn, coming inside a woman is the ultimate. it is far more intimate than chucking your muck anywhere.
women do on occasion get pleasure from a pearl necklace or a pube cum, I made a woman cum by the simple acts of cumming on her anus and also one time in my hand which i then put into her pussy.. and some but far from all relish an oral ejaculation. Being wanked off is also delightfully naughty, the end to a threesome for me (never been lucky enough) would probably be a cum sharing episode but in truth, just to have a threesome would suffice and where or how I came would proably be irrelevant.
but realising that porn and sex are not always compatible is a healthy outlook

[LoveLover]

I had a girlfriend once who wanted to get a baby. Therefor I always had to cum inside her vagina. There really is nothing to it. To me, it is as if I don't cum at all. I really need to cum over a woman's streached out tongue or there's no fun in sex. And a woman who won't allow me do do so to me is a frigit and cold and both an uninterested and an uninteresting woman. A woman who will allow it will always get my full respect! And I've felt that way years before the porn producers started to see things my way.

[Bucho666]

I think exactly the other way as LoveLover.
As for p0rn movies almost in every scene it ends with "he comes on her face or in her mouth or on her tongue".
That's nothing special anymore since really every movie has it.
And most of the girls in these movies are disgusted when it happens - and often you can even see it.
That's one thing why I like classics - because the men come in different ways and it usually looks real because they couldn't hold it anymore and they come where they are. There ist no five minute wanking like nowadays until the man finally comes.

In real life a fine BJ to "the end" is a fine thing. But I like it in any other way too.

It is kinda hard to find a p0rn movie nowadays where they come like in the old ways. Some Big-Tit movies have scenes where he comes over her tits - thats obvious. And then there are some handjob movies. But thats about it. There even is no cateory other then cumshots or blowjobs or stuff like this. I think thats too bad.

[sesamus]

I had a brief fling with a stunning primary school teacher to the world she looked the sensible pillar of the community type but boy when her clothes came off she behaved like a pornstar. She used to take my load in her mouth and swallow she really loved it as of course did I.

Before that I thought that kind of thing only happened in movies so I was delightfully surprised when she first did it and I have since had one other girlfriend who swallowed.

I know people talk about the whole sex object thing where women are concearned but I myself absolutely adore giving women oral sex I spend a lot of time on that and quite happily allow my partners to juice all over my face and into my mouth so what's the difference as long as both partners are happy with their loving it has nothing to do with any one else.

My dream would be a threesome with me coming on one girls pussy and another licking it off! Dream on!

[rachelx]

Great topic.

I think the facial is probably the most surreal aspect of porn. Now, I have no doubt that there is a percentage of women that enjoy it, or submit to it because their partners want it, but I can see that it's not something a lot of women would go for. The fact that bukkake and messy facials in general are seen as a very nasty thing to do--and somewhat humiliating--gives you some idea as to why it's done a lot onscreen but not in real life.

[thecossack]

Excellent topic and great comments.

I belong to the senior generation and therefore -- perhaps -- am old-fashioned and will be considered stodgy and out of touch.

But, it seems to me that the fantasy world of porn and the real world of fucking are different as day and night.

In porn fantasy we want to see and be be excited by the most vivid scenes, most enticing bodies and explicit sexual activities -- that we've never (or seldom) done. Facials, DP, handjobs, internal, etc... each of us has favored fantas(ies) that we get off to. To each his own.

To meet the widespread fanstasy desires, the producers and actors need to present the whole nine yards and are continually stretching boundaries and reaching for the "ultimate" that will sell and make a million. Over 30 years the trends have changed about as often as car styling.

For me -- and remember, my best 40 years are behind me -- real sex was hottest when there was an emotional and physical connection. The continued play and fucking were best when there was a resepct, mutual pleasure and satisfaction.

Cumming on L----'s face would have been abusive. Cumming on D----'s face was a fucking turnon for both of us. I came in a woman's mouth only once --as I reached the moment, warned her and tried to pull out, she gripped my ass and cock and refused to let go. One dear lady needed the whole load inside her cunt to get off herself. One always wanted to finish me off by hand after a vigorous doggie fuck. Another well-endowed innamorata loved having het fat tits fucked and feeling the warm juice sprayed on her nipples. One lovely would finger herself to orgasm with cum-slick hands after I shot off inside and on her bush.

Each his or her own -- in porn fantasy, or real life.

Apologize for taking so much space.